Well,, just in case any of you were worried we had a very nice time, just a few drinks and a pleasant chat, a couple of friends getting to know each other a little better. My new friend is a self admitted admirer and was very complimentary, at all times he treated me like a lady ~ which was nice ~ and behaved impeccably. I dare say we may meet again when I have a chance but I have to stress that for nothing more than a sociable chat. The evening was fun, not least because this is the first time I have been out with a man. I have often been out on my own, with other girls like me and with my friend P, it has to be said that somehow the dynamic of being out with a man is different still fun, but definitely different. I worried a lot about what to wear, was this dress too short, would seemed tights be a it of a come on? would jeans be too casual? In the end I decided on my slinky black and white cocktail dress with high heels and sheer black tights, and to stop it looking like I was trying too hard a denim jacket. I realised that going out with a man I had to be very careful about what signals I was sending with my dress and my body language as well as anything I might say.
So Just in Case any of you were worried about me I had a pleasant, safe evening, I am happy to say I remain unmolested, but had a lot of fun.
Tonight I expect more fun, I will be out to dinner with my friend and coleugue S, she has knwn about Paula fr a while now, but tonight will be the first time she will have met her. I am looking forward to the experience of being out, spending that time in good company and enjoying some good food.