When I got back from a meeting had first thing this morning I found that my wife had left a letter for me~ never a good sign ~ basically this was a "give up or get out" ultimatum. I am very sad that I have been so selfish not to have realised that things had got that bad, and very sad that she feels the need too go this far.
I have replied with what I hope is a considered and full response, I am not prepared to give up on our marriage, and will do everything I can to save it. I am however not sure that I should promise to do what I probably can't do. We have never been good at communicating~indeed that is one of the reasons I started this Blog ~ but I think we need to start getting better. I think we need to get some counselling and have suggested we go to "Relate"
I need to concentrate on this so my posts may be a little sporadic, non existent, or extensive and self indulgent at the moment I just don't know.