As cross dressers we have a low profile, almost by definition we do not want to be noticed as cross dressers. The aim is to pass as a genetic girl, not to stand out but to blend in, Stana has written here http://www.femulate.org/2011/10/better-read-than-dead.html and here http://www.femulate.org/2011/10/dressing-to-please-yourself.html about when we stand out from the crowd. I hope that when I do stand out from the crowd that it is in a positive way. As I have said elsewhere I try not to look like a transvestite or a clown, I want to look like a well presented lady out about her business. I suspect that is how most of us feel when we do mange to get out, we don't want to be objects of attention. On a personal level that is good and understandable, however I wonder what most people think about cross dressers, who and what they think we are.
|Eddie in sultry mood|